Powerful Dildo Orgasms: How to Use a Dildo like a PRO (100% Working) – 2019

Every woman loves being penetrated as it is the ultimate expression of lust and love. However, most of the times a woman is not satisfied due to many reasons. She can be single, divorced, in search of a partner or the small size of her partner may not be enough to drive her sexual urges.

Even if a woman is enjoying a healthy sex life then too she needs to bring herself to orgasm to focus back on the other aspects of life. Therefore, most of the women now prefer to keep an arsenal of sex toys that are good enough to please them and usher them towards volcanic orgasms.

A dildo is perhaps the oldest form of sex toy which has been used by women since decades now. The material can be anything from silicone, glass, etc. and they are also available in different sizes and shapes.

Moreover, vibrating dildos have been invented just to provide extreme pleasure to the ladies while they penetrate them in their ass holes or pink holes. Today, we are going to see how to use a dildo effectively to reach huge spasmodic orgasms in real quick time.

How to Use a Dildo (Featuring King-Size Cock Dildo)

How can beginners use dildos?

Some women who might not have penetrated their pussies even once should start with their fingers. Dildos of small sizes are not readily available in the market, and therefore it is better to make your love hole flexible enough before trying something big.

Once they get accustomed to regular fingering they can increase the number of fingers they stuff in the snatch and slowly their pussies will be capable of handling a dildo as well. After that, they can start with dildos of slimmer girths and smaller sizes and can gradually move on to dildos and pegs of large sizes.

How to choose a dildo? - Things to Consider

Choosing the right kind of dildo is essential as it needs to be of the perfect size, shape, and texture to please you. These are the aspects you must analyze before buying a dildo:

DILDO SIZE

The size of the dildo you are using is the key because a huge dildo is useless if you cannot take it in completely. All the built up frustration and horniness will be of no use if you purchase a dildo of the wrong size. Some of the dildos are so huge that they might even not enter in the small and cute vaginas.

Also, a compactly sized dildo is of no use if it does not excite you as much you want. Therefore, buying a dildo of the right size is the first and foremost thing to gain maximum pleasure by using them.

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DILDO SHAPE

The shape of the dildo also plays a significant role as it determines the way in which a user feels after penetrating it. Some of the dildos are large, straight and plain without any modifications in shape. Experienced users generally prefer such types of dildos.

Some of the dildos are slightly bent upwards, and they are used to stimulate particular spots inside the vagina.

Nowadays dildos which are exact replicas of penises are in great demand. These dildos are shaped, colored and even textured like real life penises and they provide the maximum pleasure to the women especially to those women who already have been penetrated by a real penis at last once in their lifetime.

Such penises are also designed with testicles which offer a more realistic look and feel to the user once they penetrate it in their holes. Apart from these, there are different types of dildos such as dildos with multiple loops and blocks, and these dildos come in numerous shapes and colors as well.

THE NEED FOR THE TOY

Before buying dildos you must also understand your needs and then you can invest in them accordingly. Some women and even men use dildos for anal penetration. Such people do not need huge dildos as the anus is quite small as compared to a vagina.

However, many women prefer dildos for both vaginal and anal masturbation. Such women can do with dildos that are neither very small not too big but just perfect enough to stimulate their senses. The texture of the anal dildos is generally very smooth due to the sensitive nature of the tissues in the anal canal.

Also, if a woman needs a dildo only for the vaginal sex, then she can use the dildo of the appropriate size according to her sexual needs and urges.

DILDO TEXTURE

All the traditional dildos were of similar shape, size, and texture. They all used to be either made up of glass or rubber and were generally smooth and solid. However, nowadays dildos with different kinds of textures are available in the market, and each of them makes you feel differently.

Silicone dildos which resemble real dicks are also textured to simulate the real penises. They are textured with veins and muscle knots to give a realistic look and feel to them. Dildos made from glass are solid and plain textured to avoid any discomfort to the user after or while using them.

Therefore, you can decide which texture will make you feel better, and according to that, you can finalize your dildo.

PRODUCT PRICE

Price of the dildos has always been a matter of debate as there can be a huge difference between two dildos which feel and look the same. Here the difference can be of the quality and safety measures used in them to make your penetration much safer.

Therefore, you need to evaluate various factors before finalizing a dildo of your choice. That being said, it is also true that there is no point in investing too much on a dildo and you must also not compromise on the quality. A perfect balance of quality and price might give you an ideal dildo of your choice!

Are lubricants required for using a dildo?

The answer for this question is complex as lubricants may or may not be required during a penetration. It all depends on how wet a woman gets from inside before she starts using a dildo. Most of the women do not need a lube while using a dildo for vaginal sex.

However, if you are in a hurry and have no time to play with yourself, you will often start dry and rough. Therefore, in such cases, you can use lubrication to ensure that the dildo glides in smoothly without causing unnecessary friction and inconvenience to the users.

If you are using a dildo for anal penetration, then the use of lubricants is a must. Most of the people feel that the anal cavity secretes its juices once you start playing with it, but this is completely false.

Therefore, you might need a surplus quantity of lube before you start having anal penetration with a dildo.

You can apply the lube to the dildo and also in your anal cavity to make the process smooth, easy and less painful.

There are two types of lubes available in the market viz. water-based lubes and silicone based lubes. The silicone-based lubes denser and long lasting as compared to the water-based lubes. However, they cannot be used if you are playing with the sex toys that have silicone content in them.

Also, the silicone-based lubricants are not compatible with most of the condoms. On the other hand, water-based lubes have a short-term effect, and therefore you have to apply it generously and on multiple occasions as well. However, they are entirely safe to use and compatible with all the condoms and sex toys.

Therefore, you can choose the lubricants according to your needs, and as per the sex toys you are using.

Can we use condoms with dildos?

Some people might find it funny as dildos do not make your pregnant nor are infected with any virus. However, using condoms with a dildo is not such a bad idea if you want to spend less time cleaning it.

Also, condoms keep you safe from all the allergies and infections. There are many instances when one dildo is shared by different users and using condoms in such cases is a bright idea for sure as you protect yourself from the STD's STI's that the person sharing your dildo might have.

Moreover, there are thinner condoms available that do not manipulate the texture of your dildo in any way.

So if you own a textured dildo which is meant to make you feel in a certain way, then there is no need to worry as thin condoms are available which would allow the dildos to provide the same type of feeling which it is designed for.

 How to Use a Dildo: By Yourself (Masturbation)

#1 Examine the Dildo

This is for everyone whether they are beginners or experienced users whenever they are buying a new piece of a dildo. When you open the package of a new dildo, you have to inspect it carefully to check for any rough edges or scratches.

Also, you need to be very careful about the sharp edges as they can prove to be very harmful to your sensitive anal and vaginal canal.

Most of the dildos are designed to be smooth, and if they have some holes or minute apertures in them then it is a manufacturing flaw, and you need to get such dildos exchanged immediately. Moreover, there are double penetration dildos which you can use with your partner at the same time. 

Therefore, if there is any such manufacturing defect in the dildo, it can hurt you both at once. It is always better to be careful at first then feeling sorry about it later.

 

#2 Put it in the Hole

Before using a dildo, you need to be lubricated a little, and there is also no point in starting hard and fast as it will cut down your the time and intensity of your pleasure.

Therefore, if you are using a dildo with a partner ask them to tease you, kiss you, and you can make out with them in numerous ways which turn you on.

Nibbling and licking on the nipples can turn any woman on and it also makes her wet from inside which acts like a natural lubricant and they are also able to penetrate themselves smoothly after that.

 

#3 Explore Different Positions

Most of the women like to sit on a sofa, bed or couch and spread their legs wide enough before inserting the dildo. However, this is not the only way to please oneself. A woman can try different positions while using a dildo which also lets her find the position which suits her best.

You may also use different angles for penetration particularly when you are using a dildo which is a tad smaller then you prefer. A dildo which is slightly slender than you require can be used to explore different angles with much ease and comfort, and it also stimulates you to a great extent.

Here are the few ways by which you can get on the verge of coming very easily with the help of a dildo:

  • Suppose you are in a bathroom and there is no way you can sit back and use the dildo. In such cases, you need to find a firm place high enough to rest one of your legs in standing position. Then you can spread your legs and keep one of the legs in a higher position. This will create enough space for you to insert the dildo and once you have penetrated the dildo you can rub the insides in many ways, and you can also play with your clitoris to reach the orgasm faster.
  • If you are with your partner and want to enjoy with a dildo, then you can explore the depths of your vagina by asking your partner to stroke the dildo in and out while you can rest yourself in any position which is comfortable to you. Some women also like to get penetrated with a dildo in doggy style position which is not possible unless your partner is there to help you out.
  • If you have a lesbian partner, then you can ask her to nail you in doggy style position by using a strap-on dildo.

 

#4 Stimulate Your Clitoris

It is always wise to stimulate the clitoris while penetrating with a dildo as it can lead you towards an orgasm faster. If you are with a partner, you can ask him to use his hand or tongue to arouse your clit, and you can use a clitoral vibrator if you are alone.

There are a few dildos which can vibrate as well, and you can use such dildos to stimulate your clitoris as well.

 

#5 Find Your Depth

Some women like to take the dildo deep inside whereas some might like to take only half of it inside her vagina. It also depends on the mood and preferences of the women. Therefore, it becomes essential to find the right depth and start stroking the dildo till that particular spot or point to reach orgasms quickly.

You can also start by lower penetrations, and you can eventually start hitting deeper spots once you reached an aroused state.

Therefore, it is always recommendable to have dildos of different sizes and shapes in your kitty because you never know which dildo can make you squirt on a particular day depending on your mood and state.

A regular dildo for vaginal sex must be at least 6 inches tall whereas anal dildos are smaller and up to 5 inches long. Some women like even to take dildos of up to 9 inches inside but this requires a lot of practice and energy needed to penetrate such huge dildos up to their full length is also greater.

 

#6 Easy Handling and Retrieval

Some women like to take the dildo deep inside whereas some might like to take only half of it inside her vagina. It also depends on the mood and preferences of the women.

Therefore, it becomes essential to find the right depth and start stroking the dildo till that particular spot or point to reach orgasms quickly. You can also start by lower penetrations, and you can eventually start hitting deeper spots once you reached an aroused state.

Therefore, it is always recommendable to have dildos of different sizes and shapes in your kitty because you never know which dildo can make you squirt on a particular day depending on your mood and state.

A regular dildo for vaginal sex must be at least 6 inches tall whereas anal dildos are smaller and up to 5 inches long. Some women like even to take dildos of up to 9 inches inside but this requires a lot of practice and energy needed to penetrate such huge dildos up to their full length is also greater.

 

#7 Strap-On Dildo

The use of strap-on dildos has increased with the increase in lesbian couples. However, strap-on dildos are not just for that. Many couples do it both ways, i.e. the man enters both the holes or only the vagina of his partner whereas even the woman has access to his anal cavity.

This means that even she can bend him and use the strap-on dildo to nail his anus. Some strap-on dildos are also equipped with the vibrating ability which makes the experience much more interesting and stimulating.

Do not forget to use lubes while anal penetrating your partner to glide the dildo smoothly in his dirty hole.

Final Thoughts

These were the ways and techniques by which a woman or even a man can extract a lot of sexual stimulation with the help of a dildo. Use different types of dildos on various occasions to make the experience unique and memorable.

If you know about any more kinky and exciting things which you can do with a dildo, then you can always write about them to us, and we will research on them as well. Till then, explore your depths and have volcanic eruptions with sexy dildos!

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