Top 18 Anal Sex Positions for All Couples to TRY! (2020)

Anal sex was considered to be taboo in many religions and cultures for many decades, but finally, it is being accepted as one of the legitimate ways to have sex.

The sheer pleasure and satisfaction anal sex offer to the couples make it one of the most opted forms of sex after the regular vaginal sex.

If you are into gay porn, then most likely, you’ve been curious about butt play. And fortunately, it’s not much of a taboo in the ‘straight people’ world anymore. 

Studies have shown that most women enjoy it, as Anal sex can be a very fulfilling and intimate experience. Especially, if it’s done with the right partner.

So if all goes well then you may as well experience full blown Anal orgasms.

Top 18 Anal Sex Positions

However, anal sex is not as easy as it feels and looks like. It needs a lot of practice and regular training in order to master the trick of nailing the anus of your lover. Apart from that, there are different anal sex positions which are not only kinky but also an immense source of pleasure for the couples involved in the act.

Today we are discussing the unique anal sex positions which are wild, slutty and sexy at the same time. These positions offer different ways of having sex for couples who are keen to experiment and explore their love lives. 

#1. Standing Anal Position

standing anal

It is a perfect anal sex position for those women who are worried about having cramps after having their butts nailed. It is extremely easy and great way of having anal sex when you are feeling lazy. 

Follow this process in order to understand this pose better:

  • Step 1: Let your woman stand erect. Get on her behind and start ramming her from the standing position itself.
  • Step 2: The guy can stand on his toes if his partner is taller than him. Also, the lady can stand on her toes if she is too short for her guy.
  • Step 3: You can hug your girl from behind while having sex with this pose. You can also grab her pussy and play with her clit to arouse her more during the anal sex.
  • Step 4: After enjoying this pose for some time the girl can throw her hands up in the air to feel more ecstatic while having the anal intercourse.

 

#2. Posterior Plank Position

posterior plank anal

This is a unique yet simple of having anal sex. Both the guy and his woman can derive extreme pleasure from this pose which also ensures that your love bond remains strong and connected.

Follow these steps to understand this position better:

  • Step 1: The woman needs to lie flat on her stomach and spread her legs wide enough to expose her butt hole.
  • Step 2: The guy can enter his lady from the behind now, and for that, he needs to lean himself in an arched position over her buttocks.
  • Step 3: He can also place his knees on her legs for a more dominant and rough session of sex.
  • Step 4: This pose is extremely hot and allows you to enjoy sex in a seamless manner.

 

 

#3. Cowgirl Position

cowgirl anal

The cowgirl position allows you to enjoy both anal and vaginal sex in a kinky way. This kinky cowgirl position will enable you to perform anal sex in a most steamy way and provides great pleasure to the couple.

Follow these steps to enjoy this position more:

  • Step 1: Let the guy rest on his back. His legs must be arched upwards a little just enough to let him penetrate her from her behind.
  • Step 2: His lady can then straddle him, and when the things ease out she can start riding him.
  • Step 3: The couple can kiss and fondle each other during this process. They can also hug each other in a tight hug while enjoying the anal sex.
  • Step 4: This position is as steamy as it can get while having sex and therefore one of the most preferred poses by the butt sex loving couples.

 

#4. Leaning Position

leaning anal

Leaning Anal Position is sex position which looks easy but is actually for the couples who are into anal sex from a long time. It gets sexy and steamy as hell and can give extreme kink and pleasuring to both while ramming the brown hole.

Follow these steps to be an expert in Lean on Me position:

  • Step 1: Make your lady stand erect on her legs.
  • Step 2: Stand behind her.
  • Step 3: Bend her torso forward until it gets perpendicular with her legs. 
  • Step 4: Grab her by her abdomen for additional support and if your lady is not so comfortable in this position you can also let her balance her arms on some furniture high enough to maintain the position.
  • Step 5: This pose is very kinky and allows the male partner to nail her butthole in a merciless manner.

 

#5. Anal Chill Position

chill anal

If you want to relax and enjoy anal sex, nothing can get better than the Anal Chill sex position. You just need a cozy couch for performing this anal sex position. 

Follow these steps to understand it better:

  • Step 1: Let the guy sit on the couch in a normal way with his feet touching the floor.
  • Step 2: The girl needs to pounce on him and sit on his thighs after that.
  • Step 3: The guy needs to hold her slender waist, and then he can nail her butthole from below.
  • Step 4: This is a very interesting pose used in numerous movies, and porn flicks as well.
  • Step 5: The partners can even kiss each other during the anal pounding to make the experience much better for both of them.

 

#6. Rear Entry Position

rear entry anal

Rear Entry is a relatively easier way of having anal sex. However, it is extremely sexy and can make both the partners scream and tremble with pleasure.

Kindly follow the below steps if you need to expertise this position:

  • Step 1: Let the woman lie flat on her stomach.
  • Step 2: After that, she can arch her back with the support of her arms.
  • Step 3: Also, she needs to separate her thighs and pull her legs up to create space for her lover.
  • Step 4: The guy can then lean on her and slam her from behind. The pace of the thrusts can be gradually increased, and more pressure can be applied to her buttocks to make it more hot and sexy.

 

#7. Missionary Position

missionary anal

Missionary is one of the most preferred positions for anal sex simply because it is one of the most simple and basic ways of having both anal and vaginal sex. Also, with the missionary position, you can get as rough and wild as you can which leads you both towards a shuddering orgasm.

These steps can guide you if you are unaware of the missionary position:

  • Step 1: The girl needs to rest on her back with her legs spread wide enough to allow complete access to her partner.
  • Step 2: After that, the guy can lean on her and thrust his penis into her anal hole.
  • Step 3: This position allows the women to adjust their pelvis at an angle comfortable enough for both of them.
  • Step 4: Also, this position enables the couples to ride the butt hole roughly and at a higher speed which leads both of them towards a huge orgasm.

 

#8. Butterfly position

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The butterfly position may sound sweet and cute to you, but it is powerful enough to make her scream and cry with pain and pleasure. This position requires patience and stamina as well especially on the part of the women as she has to remain in an inverted position for a long time.

Follow these steps to master this anal sex position:

  • Step 1: The guy needs to kneel down in an upright position without leaning forward or bending backwards.
  • Step 2: After that, the woman can lie on her back and lift her legs up till they rest on his shoulders. The guy can help his girl if she is not able to get to this position on her own.
  • Step 3: The girl needs to arch her back a little and both her legs should be on either side of his shoulders so that the anus gets easily visible and accessible to the guy
  • Step 4: The guy can now start fucking her anal hole from the top, and the thrusts can slowly get wilder and harder as she gets used to the pumping action.
  • Step 5: The guy can grab her bums to gain more support while thrusting whereas the woman can get hold of his thighs while being in an inverted position in order to impart more rhythm to the anal intercourse.

#9. "back-me-Up" Position

back me up anal

Some people love the Doggy style so much that they have invented different ways of doing it. You can communicate with your partner what motion you’re comfortable with as he can finger your clit simultaneously.  One such method is the back me up technique where the woman receives merciless anal pounding by her guy.

  • Pro: Kinkier version of Doggy Style.
  • Con: Penetration can be too deep at times.
  • Difficulty: 4/10
  • Not that difficult. In fact, it can be quite comfortable if you enjoy Doggy Style already.

How to do it:

In this position you're pushing back into your partner while he is inside you as you arch your back towards him..

These steps are needed to be followed if you want to learn this technique:

  • Step 1: The girl needs to kneel down and further rest her temple on the floor with the support of her arms.
  • Step 2: The guy needs to kneel down in an erect position and slam her anus from behind.
  • Step 3: The guy can grab her tits from behind or spank her ass for a more intense pleasure while having anal sex.
  • Step 4: The girl can also finger her clit during the process to experience explosive orgasms.

#10. Backsided Lotus

The original position is one of the most popular and romantic positions out there. And if put the Anal twist, it is elevated even more. There is body to body contact as you and partner maintain eye contact and build intimacy.

Chances are he will be pretty deep into you so better go slow and find your pace along the way.

  • Pro: You’re as close to your partner as possible along with that oh, so hot eye contact!

  • Con: Likely can go very deep; so be careful.

  • Difficulty: 5/10

  • As much as it is one of the most popular and romantic positions, intense thrusting can be too much to take.

How to do it:

Sit on your partner’s lap as you cradle him in an almost hugging position, as it gives him better access to you.

#11. The Caboose

It’s a really sweet cuddly position as you guys are attached from your legs to torso. Actually one of the popular ones as it builds a lot of intimacy.

  • Pro: It’s more than just a sexual position, its romanticism builds intimacy.

  • Con: Not really.

  • Difficulty: 3/10

  • One of the most comfortable positions. Pretty simple to enact.

How to do it?  

Have your partner seated on either a chair or bed and you sit on his lap while you spoon each other in the sitting manner. Again, one of those intimate positions.

#12. Low Rider  

A combination of Doggy Style and Spooning. Gives more control over what is happening behind. It also gives comfort behind a hug which most women like!

  • Pro: With the help of your leg you can control the depth.

  • Con: Can be hurtful if it gets too intense.

  • Similar to: Doggy spoon hybrid.

  • Difficulty: 3/ 10.

  • It’s not that difficult. In fact, one of the most simplest positions on the list. As your partner is lying behind you, spooning in a doggy style.

How to do it?

You can control the pace by your legs and thrust deeper if you want. If done correctly, you will hit all the right spots experiencing intense pleasure.

#13. The doppelbanger 

Replica of Threesome, except you'll be using dildo instead. 

If you are keenly interested in double penetration but hate sharing your bed space with a third person, then this is a perfect position for you!

  • Pro: Benefit of double penetration without the threesome.

  • Con: If you like having a third person present while you’re in an act, then that can be a significant con for you, as you lost a possibly excellent opportunity.

  • Similar to: Threesome.

  • Difficulty: 6/10

  • If you’re not used to doubling penetration, it will be a little hurtful.

How to do it?  

So as your partner will be thrusting from behind, you'll be holding the sex toy against your vagina, experiencing double penetration. You can even put a cushion between your legs to hold the dildo at its place

#14. Piledriver 

This is hands down, one of the most challenging positions; as one, your partner will ultimately be inside you, as he is directly sitting on top of your rear, two, you have to maintain steady posture, and three, too much flexibility needed.

  • Pro: Deeper penetration giving intense pleasure.

  • Con: Very difficult and extreme posture to even enact.

  • Difficulty: 9/10

  • You need extreme flexibility, will be able to take your partner entirely inside you (is uncomfortable for some women), maintain a stable posture.

How to do it?

Bring your legs over your head from the front as you lie upon your back. Get your butt as high in the air as possible to give better access to your partner. As he leans against you, you’ll have a good clitoris stimulation.

#15. Seesaw Position

This position is again one of the most difficult ones as your partner will be having a hard time thrusting in you; so you have to support him the most by holding your posture steady.

  • Pro: Deeper access to your partner.

  • Cons: Can be very uncomfortable if too intense.

  • Difficulty: 5/10

  • It can be exhausting at times as there is a direct strain on your hands.

How to do it?

You have to sit on your partner’s lap, and you can lean behind with the help of your hands on the bed, giving him the most accessible to you.

#16. Reverse Cowgirl 

This position is much more valued and shown respect in the Anal Sex world; as the pace of thrusts is being controlled efficiently. In this position your toned back is a complete treat for your partner.

  • Pro: Much accessible than Cowgirl as the thrusting pace and depth can be controlled with relative ease.

  • Con: Intimate eye contact won't be there.

  • Difficulty: 4/10

  • Again, not too difficult to do.

How to do it?

Straddle your partner backwardly as he lies on his back. Have him play with your clit as your sexy back is full on display.

#17. Poles Apart

This position is little weirder as some of you may not even have heard about it. But most people fancy this position as it gives G-spot stimulation without any deep penetration.

  • Pro: Perfect G-spot stimulation without deep penetration.

  • Con: Little weird and confusing to understand.

  • Difficulty: 6/10

  • It’s just one of those hidden positions.

How to do it?

You need to lie on your partner as he himself is lying on the bed, your head lies on his feet and his head lying on your feet. You can bring your knees to yourself to give your partner better access and then straighten it again once he is comfortably inside you.

This position works best when either one of you has a foot fetish.

#18. Backdoor Missionary

Similar to Missionary Position, this position gives you a sense of intimacy, unlike other Anal Positions, you and partner are face to face. Again, the eye contact can be pretty intense!

  • Pro: Unlike other anal positions, this one provides intimate eye contact.

  • Con: Need to add pillows underneath your hips to get the pelvic in better access.

  • Difficulty: 2/10

  • Can be very comfortable and easy to do.

How to do it?

Put pillows under your hips to elevate your butt to give better access to your partner. You press your knees against his side as he can control the pace of each thrust. You can also put your hands over his chest for necessary resistance.

Common Questions and Answers about Anal Sex

These are some of the sexiest and steamy anal sex positions that you can try even if you are a beginner. Now let us learn about the anal sex and some facts about it. 

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ANAL SEX : Is it right for me?

So your partner is keenly interested in Anal Sex? Perhaps, this could be on their to-do list and maybe yours too. Studies have shown that there are 32% women and 64% of women who have an Anal fantasy.

In fact, most teenagers watch Anal sex in porn and want to try it with their partner. So the point is whether Anal Sex is right for you or not?

You can gently start with simply starting by inserting a finger and see if you like the sensation of actually having something inside your butt. It’s very essential to stay at this pace before you’re comfortable with experimenting with something else. 

As you grow confident, you can try with sex toys or maybe tongue and see how that feels like. You should explore this progression before directly jumping into full penetration. Some people only use sex toys as it stimulates arousal too. You can ease the nervousness through foreplay and kissing if you're doing it with a partner. 

Can women achieve orgasm through anal sex?

Many women feel that they would not be able to have orgasms through anal sex alone and therefore try to stimulate their clitoris while having anal sex. However, it is not completely true.

Getting orgasms through anal sex is a bit difficult as compared to vaginal sex but when you do it in the right way you can easily reach the edge and have big and explosive orgasms.

Does anal sex require lubrication?

Your anus does not produce natural lubrication like your vagina. Therefore, it is necessary to lubricate the interior and exterior of your anus before having anal sex. Also, lubrication makes the anal sex easier and safer. You can use water based or silicone based lube in order to lubricate your anus.

However, if you do not have them, you can even use coconut oil.

Is anal sex risky?

Anal sex can be comfortable and blissful if all the precautions are properly followed. However, if your anus dries up or the thrusts are too hard then micro ruptures and tears can occur inside the anal canal which can also result in internal bleeding.

Therefore, we recommend you to be extremely careful and gentle especially if you are a beginner in anal sex positions.

Is anal sex always painful?

Anal sex can be very painful for men and women with small and tight butt holes. However, after practicing it for a few weeks, the pain starts to subside, and you experience the real feeling of having anal sex.

Therefore, we advise couples to start slowly and gradually they can experiment with different postures and sex toys.

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Can sex toys be used for anal sex?

There are many options available in the market when it comes to anal sex toys. One can also use dildos of smaller sizes and girths to start their journey of exploring anus. Vibrating plugs are considered to be the best among anal sex toys simply because they are safe and allow you to practice anal sex with plenty of options.

Moreover, the vibration stimulates you to the core and helps you achieve huge orgasms in a seamless manner. 

Can anal sex stimulate the G-spot of women?

Anal sex cannot be used for directly stimulating the G-spot. However, the tissue that separates the anus and vagina is very thin and therefore regular anal sex can stimulate your G-spot as well.

Do we need to use protection while having anal sex?

Most of us believe that anal sex can be done without using protection simply because it is not connected to birth in any way. It is true that a woman cannot get pregnant by anal sex, but one can easily get infected by sexual disorders and diseases if their partner does not use protection.

Even HIV and STD can be transmitted or contracted if one does not use condoms while having anal sex.

Does the anal cavity become big if it gets penetrated regularly?

Some people believe that the anus or the anal cavity becomes huge as we keep stuffing huge dildos and anal plugs into it. However, it is not true at all. If you are having anal sex regularly only the flexibility of the anal cavity increases and that too by a small extent.

This helps to make the anal sex smoother and enables a dick to glide in it easily. However, the anus resumes its original shape and size as soon as the penis or dildo or vibrating plug is removed from it. Therefore, there is no need to worry about the size of your anus while performing anal sex.


Conclusive Thoughts

These were some of the guidelines and a few of the anal sex positions that may spice up your sex life if done properly. Anal sex is completely safe unless you get too wild and out of control but the same thing goes for vaginal sex as well. 

When you hear of Anal Sex, the position that pops in your mind is doggy style. But there are various right Anal Positions that you can explore. 

Therefore, there is no need to stay away from anal sex even if you haven’t tried it yet. Some anal sex positions are meant for the beginners whereas some of them are reserved for the experienced ones. Therefore, we advise you to judge your expertise before experimenting with these positions.

Many people find anal play really exciting but as they say experimentation is a key and you’ll figure out what works the best for you. Don’t be sad though if you take a couple more takes to be at a place that feels much natural and addictive.

Along with it, if you try Anal and it isn’t your cup of tea, there is plenty of other experimentation.

According to your preference, it can be pretty enjoyable if done with the right partner and upon use of a lot of lubricants and trust me Anal sex can be one of the most eventful sex of your life!

So don’t be scared, just give Anal a chance, it will be an excellent experience for both you and your partner. If it works, it works!

Also, if you have more kinky and sexy anal love positions, please write to us about them, and we would like to get more details at your service. Enjoy anal sex and please your partner to his or her limits!

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