Complete Guide on Small Dick Sex (2020)

Do you really think you have a small penis?

Men often get embarrassed with their penis sizes because they think it to be the ultimate way to attract a woman.

But the real fact is completely different.

You will surely come across people who might tell you that they have a big penis, but in real life they are worst in bed.

Even people with smaller penis can blow your mind with their great sex moves.

So, in reality, the size of the penis doesn’t matter as much as your skills and sexual moves do.

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Do you really have a small penis?

What seems to be small for you might not be small for others.

Even if you have a small penis, you can get the biggest hot bods in town only if you know how to use it well. On average, the size of the penis varies right across the globe. As per the survey from NHS, the average size of an erect penis range within 13 to 18 cm.

  • Some studies find that the range of penis length while erect for most men will be 5 to 5.65 inches, or 5 to 6 inches.
  • Review of some of the existing studies clearly state that more than 15,000 men found that the average length of their penis was closer to the lower end of that range right at 5.17 inch. They have a girth of around 4.59 centimeters.
  • In case you have a penis, which is 5 inches long, then congratulations! You are just under average and that’s not too bad.  Yet, some people really think that they don’t have a large penis. What people consider to be a small penis is actually influenced by pornography videos. As most of them shows the bigger and thicker penises of porn stars.
  • A study published by researchers in UCLA and CSULA states that while 85% of women are quite satisfied with their male partner’s penis sizes, only 55% of men were satisfied with the size of their penises. Around 45% of them wanted their penises to be a bit larger in size.
  • This phenomenon proves to be pretty common and considered as “small penis syndrome.” That’s why most men face anxiety and don’t feel comfortable in sharing such details, even with their partners.
  • While talking about the size of penis, there are two things to consider; one is girth and other is length
  • Length might sound obvious but there’s more than just measuring the shaft of your penis. The penis extends right beneath the skin where it gets surrounded by fatty pad. So, the guys who lose tremendous amounts of weight will gain more penis length.
  • Girth, on the other hand, refers to thickness, which can be measured around cross-section or circumference. These things are really proportionate. A micro-penis happens to be thin and short, but a penis can always prove to be long and thin or even wider and shorter.

You will surely come across some women who think that a short penis is not an issue as long as the girth or thickness is enough to get them into mood.

The Perks of Having a Small Dick

Let's Learn about Micro Penis

Unfortunately every male is not gifted with a humongous penis size and few of them out there have a tiny penis as well, often termed as micro penis.

While some penises might be a little bit smaller than the average size, but there are some others which are quite short in length, that’s a 2.5-inch standard deviations and less than what the average size, after considering age.

  • On average, according to some surveys, the average size of an erect penis will be 5.17 inches in length and that comes with a standard deviation of around .65 inches.
  • Even though some people might state to have micro penis if that’s lower than 3 inches in length, even some larger penises can be considered as micro penis if the average length of that culture is longer than global count.
  • So, just to be clear, it is really tough to address if someone has a micro penis or not. As per some studies made, most men with micro penis will fall within 2 standard deviations on average.

Even though smaller penis might be because of normal variation, a micro penis can be a result of poor hormonal reactions during fetal development or from few hormonal irregulations. This might be the result of gene mutations or any of the other causes.

So, hormone therapy might have a chance to stimulate the growth of this organ among children.

Can you really work hard to make a small penis longer?

There are so many fake schemes available all over the internet, which will lure up a guy to try them to increase the size of his penis. If you are insecure of your penis size and really want to impress your girl, it isn’t that difficult for you to fall for these options. But the real truth is pretty harsh.

There's no FDA approved item in the market, which can make your penis grow. Even though you might pay somebody to perform a surgery to enlarge your penis or can try to get some supplements from the black market, there are very less chances of increase in the penis’s size. 

Primarily speaking, you have to first get an approval from a reputed doctor before you try any of these methods, and even before taking up a supplement. Some of these medications may interact pretty negatively with some of the existing medicines or may even cause harm.

Yet there are some promising devices available in the market which helps in increasing the penis’s size temporarily or can help make erections stronger, like Viagra, but you don’t have to develop a habit of it. Moreover, you can think of losing weight in case you are overweight.

Carrying that extra weight means that the fatty pad will surround the penis and it would look smaller than what it actually is. Some research further indicates that being overweight will negatively affect your sexual desire and can hinder your sexual performance.

Sex Positions for Small Dicks

Just because you have a small dick doesn’t mean that you can’t impress your girl!

You must remember that you are not the only one with such a small penis. You just need to know how to win your girl in bed with your sexual moves and perfect intercourse techniques.

There are some proven sex positions which are designed to help you enjoy perfect intercourse with your partner, even if you have a small dick.

Sofa side saddle

The primary aim is to intensify sex with your smaller penis and for that you need the best sex positions to help you to provide deeper penetration. Trying out the side saddle is one point you can never miss.

This sexual position will not just let you to get a full penetration, but also help the penis to make great contact with the vaginal walls.

You can try it out by letting the penetrative partner sit on the couch’s edge as the receptive one lowers the body way down over the penis. Trying to have sex on a sofa rather than on bed is a perfect way to spice your love life greatly.

Focusing on missionary anal

Smaller penises are no doubt anal friendly to say the least. As the anus does not lubricate on its own like a vagina, it might be quite tricky for someone to enjoy these moves. Smaller penises suggest less requirement for anal stretching, making anal sex pretty comfortable for everyone.

Just to be in this missionary anal sex position, make sure to warm up the anus first. For that, proficient use of lube and a good deal of foreplay is required. Apart from using your fingers, you can use other sex toys as well like anal beads, butt plugs and some more.

Then you have to ask your partner to lift up her bottom. Then manoeuvre together to find that perfect spot and the perfect angle of insertion of your small penis into her anus.

Pile Driver

For this sexual position, you need some flexibility for sure. This position works wonderfully on the carpeted floor. Just lay on your back and then swing your legs back and right over the head to get your feet closer to the ground.

Your partner will be pretty helpful in this regard by lifting your butt up. For those who practice yoga, this position is called plow pose. Later, it is time for the male partner to squat right on top of the woman and then enters from above.

In case, the guy in this sexual relation gets positioned over, it is not going to be much work for him. The woman just has to hold him up. If the woman can spread her legs, it is called Spread Eagle move and that’s a bonus point.

Splitting bamboo

If you want to get your legs out of the way, you better try the Splitting Bamboo move. Here, you need to lie down on your back with a leg draped over the shoulder of your partner or covering his waist area.

On the other hand, he is going to straddle your other leg and then will start entering you. It is going to be a full on interaction with legs out of the way. So, the penis will go all the way inside the woman providing more satisfaction.

Furthermore, there will be easy access to the clit, which will act as a icing on the cake.

Flexed doggy style

In this pose, you can start fresh with the basic doggy style. Here, you need to be on your hands and knees and then your partner will be kneeling behind you. Then you have to drop your chest and head and will need to tilt your butt area up in air.

The more the woman gets to curve her back, the better will be the results. Later on, your partner will need  to move the knees a couple of inches back so that he gets the chance to tilt his pelvis forward.

Here, the guy can push the hips forward to penetrate as much as he can, and even completely, inside his partner.

Propped Reverse Cowgirl

This position is perfect for your partner, where the partner needs to lie down with one pillow under his butt. This will help to press his hips forward and then expose his penis more. As the name suggest, you will actually sit right on top of your male partner; facing his feet.

The major point about this position is that you get the chance to control both the movement and it’s driven pleasure. During normal sexual positions, the legs might get into the way, which isn’t the case with propped reverse cowgirl.

You can try incorporating some props too, which will change the sexual game plan completely. You can add anything right from ice cubes to wedge pillows and so much more. As you have these props already around your house, there’s no need to invest any extra money.

Side Cowgirl

This is another form of the cowgirl move for you to try. For this move, you don’t need a pillow for supporting your partner’s butt.

All you have to do is just swing the legs over to one possible side and then put the hands behind you on the other portion of your partner. Your pussy and butt cheeks will then fit right into the crevice of your partner’s legs and this will help you to enjoy deeper penetration, to say the least.

Always go for the anal

If your partner has a small dick, nothing works better than anal sex for sure. It is one easy access towards the back door, making it smoother and less painful. An anus of a woman is usually tight in nature when compared to her vagina, and this makes anal sex a difficult proposition.

This form of sexual movement will need a whole lot of warm up sessions, acceptance and communication. It might not work on the first try, mainly if the man has a large penis. For someone who loves anal sex, smaller penises are perfect.

If you don’t have any clue regarding anal sex pleasures, you can try this move with a smaller penis or dildo firstly. It is one great step for beginners, before you graduate into butt plugs and try out some promising moves in here.

The High dive

Here, you need your male partner to lay with hips and legs on the bed, but the torso will be bending in backwards right off the bed. Then, you need to climb on him like the cowgirl position. It will actually force the hips of your partner forward, resulting the best penetration with a small penis.

All you have to keep in mind is that the guy must be rock solid down before getting into this position. If the blood is flowing away from penis, it becomes difficult for sure.

Other Advanced Yet Simple Moves to Try Out

When it comes to deeper penetration, position is the key and it will make all the difference. So, one must keep in mind that the vagina contains a limited number of the nerve ends, mainly when compared to clitoris. So, always going deep must not be the prime focus here.

For that deeper pleasurable level, there are some moves which won’t need the male partner to dig deep within. So, even if you have smaller penis, you can always try out these moves with your partner.

Three Positions to Make Your Penis Feel Bigger

A leg up

If you want full penetration without anything coming in your way, you can always aim for a Leg Up position.

Both parties will have easy access to the clit and that gives rise to maximum pleasure. For working out on this move, the female partner will lie on her back and then drape one leg over the shoulder of her partner.

The male will straddle his other leg and will enter her when the time is right and the sexual drive is at peak. Remember to place a pillow right under your hips if you want to bring up the vagina closer for easier entry.

Face to Face

One of the hottest and most intimate sex moves has to be the face to face one.

This position will help you make some serious eye contact with the person and make out accordingly. That helps in addressing an emotional bond and this sexual drive will not just satisfy you physically but will melt your heart too.

For this move, the male partner will sit on the end of the bed or a chair. Then the woman will straddle her lap for that perfect entry. Time to wrap your arms around one another and then grind away! This move is just perfect if you want to come closer to your partner.

The plank move

This works a lot like the missionary, except the woman remains on her stomach.

The male partner will get into a plank position being on top of the woman and then will enter her from behind. The best part about this position is that the legs of the recipient are flat on bed and then extended, which helps in creating that tighter space for the penis to push right in.

For the male, this tightness associated with the space seems like heaven. On the other hand, the recipient won’t miss out and would love to feel that full swing mode too.

The seesaw move

If you have been trying out anal for quite some time now and have become a pro in this mode, then for such advanced players, you have seesaw move. It actually helps the receiver to take that lead when it comes to thrusting. So here the woman can receive it as deeper as it can get.

The male partner here will sit on a bed with his legs all extended out and hands behind for support. Then female partner will sit on her partner’s lap facing him, and will place her hands behind her on the man’s legs.

Some Pointers to Work On

It is true that men are always embarrassed to talk about their penis size, especially if they have smaller dick.

However, it is really important for both partners to think and remain positive even if the size of penis is small, as in reality it won’t matter much. There are some pointers which a man or a woman should keep in mind within this situation.

Just don’t stress out

So what if you have a small penis? There’s no need to stress about it. If you know the right moves and can chalk it out well, things will clearly work and fall in place. There’s no need to stress as that might lead to some disastrous results.

You need an erect penis for penetration and for that, proper blood flow is required. You can’t get it if you are way too stressed out about it. In any sexual situation, remember it is all about having fun and keeping stress at bay if you need to do it right!

Time for you to obey that golden rule

In case, your guy keeps on mentioning the penis size subtly, never try to say anything which is disparaging.

Always keep this rule in mind. While he is pushing, try to say something positive like “I love the way our bodies move together,” or “it is a perfect fit” just to keep him going and boost his confidence. Show him that you have the right chemistry and this will not make him conscious about his penis.

Look in for the best position

Whenever you are trying to have intercourse, make sure to find that perfect position, designed purposely for your body and penis size. We have curated some of the best positions for males with smaller dicks and those are mentioned already for your reference.

Try to look for those positions, where you can get to hold legs together for maintaining the tight fit. You can also try to come across some sex positions where the genitals will remain close to one another.

Time to work on your Kegels

Getting PC muscles in the right shape can help in maintaining the tight fit during sex. The PC muscles will work like a hammock across the pelvis and will play multiple roles. But the best part is that these muscles will help the walls of the vagina to contract and then feel a lot tighter.

You can try to exercise to strengthen these muscles. Whenever you are trying to pee next, stop peeing before your bladder gets empty. There will be a “pulling up” sensation. Try working 10 sets of these short pulses and 10 sets of longer ones on a daily basis.

Later, when you are up with your partner, squeeze the PC muscles while he thrusts inside you. Remember that greater PC strength will often lead to stronger orgasms.

How to do Kegel Exercises and Why they Work

Don’t always go for excess lube

If you do have a small penis, don’t try to use way too much lube. In case you are already pretty wet, it might feel like he is slipping inside you way too much, because the small size is not meant for excess lube usage.

If you are making plans to use lube, always try to use dime-sized amounts, and even less if possible. If you ever feel like things are turning out to be way too slippery even when there’s no lube used, try to have him pull out. For a minute, give him a hand job.

Your hand will take that excess lube out and will give rise to more friction at the time of having intercourse again.

Time to add some more clitoral stimulation

The most important region for a woman to enjoy orgasms in the best way possible is the outer third wall of the vaginal canal. However, due to some of the high end nerve endings, these walls remain pale when compared to the clitoris and its nerve endings.

You have to put some extra emphasis on manual stimulation or oral sex. If you want, you can even try getting some more clitoral stimulation during this field of intercourse by just touching your own clitoris or you can ask him to do it for you.

Sometimes, you can try using some toys to make this area gel up a bit more.

Try out with anal sex now

It has been mentioned innumerable times that a guy with a small penis is your perfect partner to enjoy anal sex at its best. Anal holes are pretty tight when compared to your vagina. So, if your partner has an average sized penis or more than that, you can feel the pain rising within.

You don’t want that, so always try to get hands on the best anal sex with a guy with small pee-pee. You can start exploring all the various anal sex positions and then enjoy orgasm like never before. So, everything is not dull because your guy has a small penis.

Some toys will really work out well for you

If you have been dating this guy for a long time but you are a huge fan of deep penetration, then you have multiple toys out there in the market. You shouldn’t use these toys unless you have established a strong connection with your partner and have shared your thoughts with him.

If there’s no transparent communication, chances are there that you might end up hurting his feelings. Focus on the fact that you love to experiment with new moves and for that, some toys will be handy. Make him believe in that too.

You can even ask him to try on a penis extender or sleeve to spice up your sexual life. You can even make him penetrate deep inside you with the help of a vibrator. There are so many toys out there and you can give one you like a try.

The final call

Just because you have a small dick, it won’t hamper your relationship if your girl loves you from her heart. After all, what matters is your healthy lives together. Once you are aware of the moves to follow, small dick won’t come in your way while enjoying a great night together.

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