Complete Guide on Pillow Humping (2020)

We all know that most of the women living in our society deprive of sex.

They either do not have a romantic partner or even if they have one, he might not be capable of providing them a satisfying experience in bed.

This is the reason why women have always relied on different types of masturbation techniques to relieve the sexual tension that builds in them due to a lack of pleasure and stimulation during intercourse.

Among the easy masturbation methods, the pillow humping is one of the most convenient and preferred techniques that has been used for a very long time. 

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Women usually tend to hug, kiss, and make love to their pillows or soft toys whenever they feel happy. However, the experience of masturbating with a pillow is a different thing altogether. Pillow humping is popular because it does not require a great deal of technique or practice.

Moreover, anyone can start humping their pillow in their bedroom as it is feasible. It can be used discreetly and placed right back to where it was after experiencing an intense orgasm. You only have to work your angles in the right way.

Also, the right kind of pillows will usually make it much effortless for you as their texture and feel are enough to push you off the edge.

That being said, some women might find it hard to experience strong stimulations while humping a pillow. This might be because they are doing it in the wrong way. Therefore, we have decided to provide a detailed description of all the aspects that are related to pillow humping.

A beginner’s guide

Let’s start with the basics first. If you have never humped a pillow before, it is quite possible that you do not feel aroused by it.

Countless women on this planet have taken comfort from a pillow in their bad times and therefore, these women have also not felt awkward while riding them during the moments of pure delight or ecstasy.

Also, we know many women and girls who hold a pillow in between their thighs whenever they are talking to their loved ones or while watching romantic or adult movies. If you are also attracted to a lush pillow of your bedroom naturally, it will motivate you to hump it whenever you are in the mood.

However, if you are not drawn naturally to it, then you might have to use a little bit of imagination that will encourage you to hump it.

This means that you will have to fantasize about your partner or previous sexual encounter to stimulate your mind and body so that you do not feel weird, shy, or awkward while humping a pillow. These are some more things that can get you in the right humping mood:

Dress in a sexy way

The most important thing is to arouse your mind first because your body automatically reacts to what your mind says. To get in the mood it is necessary to feel sexy first and that can only happen when you dress in a naughty or kinky way.

Use your skimpiest outfit and wear your favorite lingerie inside. It will set you in the right mood because you will feel as if you are preparing and grooming yourself for a lovemaking session.

Make the ambiance romantic

If wearing skimpy outfits and sexy lingerie doesn’t help, it means that your mind needs more stimulation. Do not think pillow humping as any other ordinary masturbation session because it will not help the cause. Try using subtle and dim lights or you can also improvise by using scented candles.

Using a sexy or romantic number can be a little too much but if it makes you feel butterflies in the right areas, do not hesitate in hitting the play button. Use cozy and clean bed sheets because the other parts of your body also need to feel comfortable while you are riding your favorite pillow.

If you have a furry or cozy blanket, use it because it can be used for hugging and cuddling afterward.

Take a hot shower

Some women like to hump a pillow right after taking a hot shower. This is because the hot shower ignites your body and it makes it more receptive to the slightest of sensations. Hot water jets ease out the stress of your body and you feel more energetic after that.

As the water droplets reach your sensitive areas, you tend to feel aroused. Therefore, you can also try to touch yourself in all the right places while taking a shower. If a shower is not your thing, you can also take a nice bath in a bathtub.

Some people like to use scented essential oils and bath bombs in the bathtub because hot water relieves stress from the body whereas the fragrance of the oils stimulates sexual desires and energy.

Take a hot bath, wear a comfortable bathrobe, do not mind wearing bra and panties, and hop in the bed to make love with your pillow. Do not forget to dry your hair because you would not want to wet your bed sheet with water.

Feeling the pillow between your thighs when your body is still warm will turn you on and you might not need any more inspiration after that.

Choose a perfect pillow

Beginners who are not experts in humping a pillow must ensure that they choose a perfect pillow because the right texture and shape will help them to feel good.

We recommend beginners to use a big pillow that is neither too hard nor too soft because a stiff and big pillow will replicate the feel and ergonomics of a male body more.  The material that is filled inside your pillow also plays a huge role in stimulating your clitoris.

Therefore, you can go for pillows that are stuffed with microbeads because they will hit the right spots as you push your vagina against the pillow.

Master the Technique 

Beginners must take it slowly at first and after humping the pillow for a couple of minutes, they can try to experiment with different angles. Take the pillow between your thighs in such a way that one of your thighs is placed on the flat side whereas your other thigh must be closer to the edge.

This will help you to work an angle that might create the right kind of sensations for you. However, if this angle does not work, you can place the bottom edge of the pillow between your thighs and try to move upwards as you hump the pillow.

Beginners might try to hump the flat side of the pillow. This might work for some women but it does not create a good angle and you will have to depend solely on the material and texture of the pillow.

Do not forget to hold the upper ends of the pillow with both your hands or you can also catch one end of the pillow with one hand if you are planning to hump it roughly.

Be safe 

Safety must be your topmost priority especially when you are humping your pillow for the first time. A beginner might topple on one side while humping a pillow and therefore she must place cushions and some pillows on both the ends so that they do not fall roughly.

Cushioning is not required if your bed is soft and comfortable. However, keeping a few soft toys or pillows on the sides can be a good idea especially when you will be on the verge of climax and need to hold or clench something before experiencing a shuddering and loud orgasm.

You can also turn on your TV or can play a song if you have the habit of moaning loudly during cumming. Do not keep any sharp objects near you like a knife, razors, blades, etc. as they can be potentially dangerous for your health.

Keep gadgets like smartphones, tablets, laptops, etc. at a safe distance as you would not want to crash them if you happen to lean or fall on them. Last but not least, do not shout during humping as it can disturb your housemates and neighbours.

Use your fingers 

Beginners will not be successful in pleasuring themselves completely using a pillow. Therefore, they can use their fingers or even sex toys or vibrators to maintain momentum. Some women also have the habit of using their fingers when they reach closer to orgasm after humping a pillow.

This is because humping a pillow only helps them to a certain level and after that, they need to avail other methods or techniques to pleasure themselves. This is quite a common thing for beginners.

Therefore, we suggest that they use their fingers or any other method to experience the pleasure of a loud orgasm because it is the only thing that matters in the end. These were some tips that the beginners can follow to learn the basics of pillow humping.

Now, let us move towards more difficult techniques that are more suitable for an experienced pillow humper. Someone who knows how to hump a pillow will not find any difficulty in reaching towards a thunderous orgasm.

However, with time, they might get bored with the same old techniques and this will deteriorate their overall experience to a great extent. Such women should try adopting new ways to hump a pillow.

Learning advanced techniques of pillow humping will not only improve their experience but they will also learn more masturbating techniques.

Try edging 

Edging is a relatively new concept in masturbation which can be used by both men and women to experience huge and satisfying orgasm.

In edging, you will have to reach the point where you are about to explode gallons of cum but instead of cumming, you will need to hold ourselves back by slowing down the pace of humping or by focusing on some other things.

This will create intense sensations in your genitals and you might not be able to control yourselves at times. Repeat this process a couple of times until you reach on the verge of a huge and powerful orgasm that will blow your mind away.

Enhance Sexual Pleasure & Orgasm with Edging!

Humping Techniques & Pillow Formations

Sometimes it's actually all about the methods on which you grind and the stacking of the pillows. First time or not, check out these strategies that may help give you a more pleasurable experience.

Flat grinding technique 

This technique involves lying on a bed face down with the pillow in between your thighs. The corner should be placed perfectly against your vulva and then you can start grinding. Start with a slow speed and after some time you can increase the speed.

Gyrate with the help of your hips if it helps and try to work an angle that stimulates your clit. This is a very simple technique that can also be used by beginners. However, it takes time to master this technique and therefore, only experienced humpers would know how to use it for a powerful climax.

Pillow folding technique 

If your pillow is too thin or not firm enough, you can fold it in half to get more surface to grind against.

This is because only a firm pillow will arouse you precisely by using the frictional force. You cannot lie flat with your face down on the bed while using this technique because the folded pillow will regain its original position once the grip of your thighs becomes loose.

Therefore, you must use this technique while sitting upright on the pillow as if you are face-sitting on your partner. Some women prefer to lie on their back and clasp the pillow firmly with their thighs and use their hands to rub the folded corner of the pillow up and down against their vulva.

On the other hand, some women might also be able to pin the pillow down perfectly while riding with their face down on the bed. As a result, we can say that the pillow folding method is more suitable for experienced women who know how to please themselves without trying too hard.

Pillow stacking 

Pillow stacking method is also used by women who like to hump pillows. In this method, they pile some pillows and mount on the piled or stacked pillows. This enhances their pleasure as they feel more pressure and resistance while grinding the pillow downwards.

However, this technique is difficult as maintaining balance on the stacked pillows can be a tough task. We would recommend this technique only to the experienced pillow humpers. If you are using this technique for the first time, you can start with two or three pillows to see how it feels.

If everything goes fine, you can stack up a couple of pillows more to get more pleasure from the humping action.

You can only use soft and fluffy pillows while using the pillow stacking technique because stiffer pillows will refuse to go down and you might end up hurting the skin of your vagina if you try harder.

Multiple pillows will help you to enjoy a rocking motion and you will be able to enjoy the humping action more. Upright or kneeling posture is more suited for this technique but does take care of your knees in case your bed isn't too comfortable.

Experimenting with Pillows 

Different kinds of pillows suit different women.

Pillows of different sizes and shapes can be humped to understand which one among them suits you the best. For example, a small or medium-sized square-shaped pillow might be enough for a woman who is short and petite whereas tall and slender ladies might need narrow and long pillows.

Triangular, rectangular or circular-shaped pillows can also prove to be a good choice if you learn how to hump them. Also, pillows are made up of different materials. You can try softer pillows if the firm one does not provide the right kind of stimulation.

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Moreover, you can experiment with memory foam, natural fiber pillows, synthetic foam pillows, etc. to check which ones provide you the greatest pleasure. These were some pillow humping techniques that you can use as you get more experienced in this masturbating style.

Now, let us look at some tips that both beginners and experienced pillow humpers can follow:

Try panties made from Silk 

If you are used to wearing cotton panties, that can create friction especially when you increase your grinding pace. Therefore, we recommend you to wear panties made of softer and smoother materials like silk.

You can also try panties made from velvet if you have them. The smoother fabric ensures that your vagina experiences gentle sensations and it also safeguards your skin from the friction and heat that are created while humping. 

Some women also like to hump without wearing panties and you can also do the same if you like to hump directly without any obstruction between you and your favorite pillow!

Tease other parts 

It is not necessary to focus only on your vagina while humping. You can also concentrate on the other sensitive parts of your body like boobs, neck, waist, etc. to generate more powerful sensations throughout your body.

For example, you can go topless and tease your tits and nipples with your hand or you can use nipple clamps to tease your nipples more intensely.

Hump with your partner’s assistance

If your partner gets turned on by watching you masturbate, you can even hump a pillow in front of your partner.

It is beneficial to hump a pillow with your partner alongside because you can ask him to lick your earlobes, kiss your neck, or grab your tits to arouse you even more. It will also make him understand your needs and urges. As a result, it will only build strong chemistry between you too.

Bored with the pillows? Hump other things 

We need to warn you now because humping is addictive.

Humping pillows regularly might make it a habit and after some time, you might even get bored with the pillows. In such cases, you can hump other things such as soft toys, your furry teddy bear, an arm of your sofa, or the softer edge of your furniture.

Some women also like to ride the edge of their beds. All these things might sound kinky and naughty to you but do not forget to ensure your safety first and you don’t want to get hurt during the process. If you are too horny just ride on the back or front of your partner and start grinding him.

Now, let us look at different types of pillows that you can use for humping:

  • Pregnancy Pillow – The U-shaped pregnancy pillow is made to support the body of a pregnant woman while she is sleeping on her sides. However, it's perfect shape enables you to use it for humping as well.You can sleep sideways and hold one end of the pillow with your thighs. Now, you can move up and down on its length to experience tingling sensations between your legs.
  • Half-moon pillows – Inflatable half-moon pillows are specially designed for kinky women. One end of the pillow is flat and the other end is soft and fluffy. Moreover, you can fill it with air before riding it.
  • Triangle shaped inflatable pillow – Triangle shaped inflatable pillow is perfect for humping because it also has a flat base and it is tapering towards one end. Therefore, you can ride on it safely in different positions.

Final verdict 

These are some of the effective methods and techniques that you can use to hump a pillow passionately. You will learn how to pin the pillow under your crotch with experience which will help you to experience wild and shuddering orgasms.

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