Complete Guide on How to Use a Vibrator (2020)

A sex toy is a wonderful way to spice up your naughty life. Just when you think that it has come to an end, guess what brightens up your wild life!? A Sex toy!

As a bright light at the end of the  gloomy tunnel, a sex toy is more of a  sexual aid to couples and a great experiment for singles.

Trying one out is always one of the best decisions you can make.

There are various types of sex toys that are available. You can either check out the ones for men or for women.

If you wish to give your partner  a completely new feeling of  independence and satisfaction, how about  giving her a vibrator on her birthday!

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You can give your love the mantra to liberation and the weapon of taking her sexual freedom to another level. Gift hera vibrator and you will never make her feel sexually deprived or dependent. Loving  does not merely involve understanding the need of your girl on the bed.

It is all about knowing what she wants even when you are not around. Giving her a feeling of your presence and a feeling of your tongue , even when you are not around her is pure bliss! A vibrator is not merely a sex toy.

It is an expression of her sexual desires which ensures that she feels free  of her boundaries and  is able to independently express her.

Why gift your girl a vibrator as a sex-toy?

Here are the top 5 reasons why you must gift your  love the first vibrator for her.

  • She will never  ask for one, but you need to understand it! Guess what, if you know what she wants,  even without her saying it, you are already scoring some bonus points there.
  • She is sure to admire it as it comes in wonderful shapes and attractive sizes and remember to envy her every time she uses it.
  • Having a sex toy during sex only adds up more flavour to your sex life. A pinch of salt to add and bam the  sensuousness hits the ceiling.  
  • A vibrator is more like you are giving your  girlfriend the time for her to express her sexual desires thus giving your girl the autonomy of her sex life to extract pleasure out of it.  
  • A vibrator ensures that your  partner must not forget you even when you are not around. It might sound absurd, but every time she gets horny, the look of the vibrator should remind her of you!

Buying Guide for a Vibrator

Now that you have decided  of gifting your girl her favourite toy, you might need to research a bit on it. Good research always works in a better way. You don’t want your girl to have something that she won’t enjoy!

So, while you are now moving from one shop to another searching for the perfect tool, let us look at some of the important checkpoints before you buy one. When you buy her a sex toy, the single motive behind it is to make her feel happy!

Making her feel that the gift belongs to her, in her close of the best things she can have! And for that to happen, you need to know what tops the most important parameter for her!

  • A good vibrator will be the one that she can carry along anywhere she wants! And how is that even going to happen?! Discretion! You guess it right! The first point in your list has to be discretion.
  • It can either be smaller in size or a bit  unconventional in shape or maybe just too unique that it cannot be noticed!

Second, on her list comes the ease of using it!  What is the battery backup? Well, you need to select one that gives her more pleasure and consumes less battery!

  • Getting an orgasm is the first priority while using a vibrator! What if the vibrator looks excellent but fails to deliver when it comes to giving her an orgasm! Can it give her pleasure the second time?
  • Having a quicker orgasm as well as of higher intensity is going to rub against her clitoral nerve endings. Giving a perfect feeling of real sex, the vibrator should be able to give a tough competition to your tongue!

Only then you will get to know, that you gifted her the right vibrator. If you are looking for a higher range vibrator ensure that you are purchasing the latest one ! Yes, a smart vibrator for long-distance relationships can be a great charm! Some of the great smart features that your vibrator can have are:

  • Anywhere charging: You must be able to charge your vibrator with the push of a button. The smartphone connectivity is what you must look for!
  • Adjustment of the intensity: If you  want her to have a complete sexual experience using the vibrator? Starting from the foreplay to the real sex! For that, you might have to shell out a few more bucks to give her an experience close to sex.
  • Customization and saving it: Well, why can you not save the customization that you have made for your last session? Well, now with the smarter vibrators, you can surely adjust your vibrator to save the settings for a perfect session.

Well, if you are confused about which type of vibrator to give to your lady, well this can be a daunting task! If you would ask us, we would shell off bucks on every type of it, just to know, which one stimulates her! Nevertheless, it is an investment on your woman, which will last  long!

 It has been found that more than 60% of women have preferred for a clitoral vibrator. A clitoral one has proven to give more satisfaction to the women as it stimulates the clitoris, one of the most sensitive portions of a woman, down there!

Let us explore the different kinds of the vibrator at a glance so that you can decide which one is the best to gift your girl!

Best Vibrator for your girl

If your girl enjoys more of clitoral stimulation, there is no point in giving her the G spot vibrator. But, how does a clitoral vibrator stimulate a woman and how is it different from the G spot one? Well, in a single line, the clitoral vibrator is the artificial tongue that you can gift your queen.

It gives a similar sensation to your girl as to when you suck the life out of her clitoris. It is like a perfect feeling of stimulated heaven on Earth  for her. You can expect her to enjoy foreplay and adjust the intensity to such an extent that she starts feeling close to real sex.

It is a perfect tool for giving her the best orgasm that she can even dream of! And, trust me; she will love you for gifting her ‘artificial tongue’ to take her to heaven! Grant her a G Spot vibrator, if you think you have not been able to hit right up to her G spot lately.

Having a G Spot orgasm is way different (and difficult, too!) as compared to a clitoral orgasm! Why?

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A G spot is not even visible physically; therefore it is really difficult to stimulate it. Unlike the clit that is visible, stimulating it can be easier, but having a G spot orgasm needs effort. Secondly, the G spot is located differently for different women.

Depending on the anatomy of the women, there is no same position of the G Spot, just like the distance between the clit and opening. The unique shape of thisvibrator makes it very unique compared to the other vibrators. A curved G spot vibrator ensures that the spot is being hit in the perfect manner.

It reduces the effort your girl makes to get an orgasm. Just insert the vibrator within her vagina , She is ready to explode into happiness and euphoria. Simple to use: quite different than any other forms of a vibrator.

If you are not very sure of what your babe might enjoy, you can surely gift her traditional vibrator.

Bullet vibrator, one of the smallest, easy to carry vibrators that she can carry with  herself wherever she goes.  It is too small,  hence it remains discreet and can be carried anywhere along with her.

Guess what, it is even smaller than a smartphone. Smaller than 5 inches, you can surely gift it to her if she is always on the go! It shall fit  perfectly within her purse and looks similar to her lipstick. And what about the noise that it creates?

Even if the room was silent, it would need you to be attentive enough to listen to it. The bullet vibrators are quieter than the normal as the noise is similar to a whisper! Easy to use vibrators should be your first preference if you are gifting this to your lady for the first time.

The usage of the product is highly intuitive as you need not worry about the right angle or the orientation of using the vibrator! Just take it closer to her vagina  and let it give her an experience of a lifetime.

Just slip in the bullet anywhere she wants to go, and there you have just gifted her portable version of your tongue! What a magical way to spread love and stay in her memory!! 

Now that we have come across the needed basics about the vibrator, it becomes important to know how to reap the best benefits out of it. Now knowing how to use it so that your girl can extract complete pleasure out of it shall be discussed.

The Complete Guide for Using a Vibrator

  • It can be used by your babe in private  as well as during sex. This article will explore both the aspects of using the vibrator.
  • While your girl is using it  in private, care needs to be taken that she doesn’t force the orgasm through! Let it happen naturally else it can be detrimental to healthy sexual well-being.

It often begins with knowing what turns you on! Is it the long shower or sex after shower? Does a bit of kinky porn get your blood rushing? When you know  what gets you on your toes, when it comes to sexual pleasure.

Getting yourself turned on is like the foreplay before the sex. Foreplay can increase the chances of a perfect orgasm by more than 40%. Make sure the stage is set  in a perfect way for the vibrations to begin. And yes, this is not going to be the same for every other woman!

The needs and preferences of every woman vary and require special care in fulfilling them. Your girl might love to have sex over food but that might not be the same with your ex. Knowing the art of teasing yourself is what self-love making is about!

Tease yourself by holding the vibrator and dragging it over the most sensitive areas of your body. Beautiful bosom, voluptuous belly or the erogenous neck! Don’t just stop doing it as you turn yourself on! Keep on teasing yourself in the areas of thighs and closer to your vagina.

Yet, it is not the right time to be closer to the spot. Make the body crib and cry for it even more. Over the labia major and over the clit, just don’t let it cool down yet. It is time now to focus on the vagina and the area around it.

You have to gently tease around this area by slowly dragging the vibrator up and down your clit is what it takes. Increase the craving as your body will scream for more pleasure and intensity but keep abreast.

How to Use a Vibrator (Rabbit & Bullet Vibrators)

The time has not yet come to increase the pressure as you slowly focus on the clitoris. The clitoris is where the focus should be given for real stimulation. Tease your clit softly by rubbing the vibrator slowly within the clit. You have two options; either push it a bit within the clit or rub it over.

As you make it happen, enjoy the growing sensation of the nerve endings. The real spot on the clit is where your nerve endings are more sensitive. You must be knowing what drives you more crazy and which specific areas do so!

Giving more pleasure to your clit is only possible if you know the right area to stimulate. If you find that your clitoris is too sensitive for the vibrator and you are experiencing  pain, it is suggested to make proper use of the clitoral hood.

A small flap of skin that is present over the clit is scientifically known as the clitoral hood. Now, it is time to try out the universally accepted position. Take your hand from the bottom of your legs and place the vibrator length-wise.

As the vibrator is placed vertically  near your vagina, but the head of the vibrator is placed against the clit, length against the labia and the lower part of the vagina should have a lower part of the vibrator. You just have tosqueeze your legs together and there you go!

Your vibrator is placed in the perfect position now!

Now that we are done experimenting with the external part of the vagina, exploring the internal part is also important.

This step will only work if your vibrator’s appearance is that of a penis. Make sure that you use lube while you are inserting the vibrator within the vagina.

The main intention of doing this is to explore what happens within. Insert it slowly within the vagina as you try to hit the G spot.

As you are trying to explore more sensitive spots, you can enjoy more pleasure and reach the orgasm quickly.

This enhances the sexual experience that you have had until now. Trying to hit the G spot and the Skene’s gland should not be your only aim.

You should also explore the A spot within the vagina to even have have a better experience.

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Just because you have started using the vibrator doesn’t mean you will let go off the fingers. Use the fingers to stimulate your clitoris. As you stimulate it, you can enjoy the pleasure of a different level. You have to strike a balance between the two; your vibrator and your fingers.

Using them will increase the pleasure and you can also, try pressing the vibrator closer to the G spot.

Keeping your vibrator clean

Cleaning of the vibrator becomes very essential from the point of hygiene. Having a clean vibrator ensures that you don’t make yourself vulnerable to any diseases or infections. To clean a vibrator, you must ensure the material which it is made up of.  Knowing about the make of the toy is essential.

Most toys are made up of silicone , so following the safest cleaning methods for them is suggested though it is very difficult to clean the toy if it is made of jelly material.

  • Using the soap for cleaning your toy is highly suggested. It is often regarded as the best method since the soap has disinfectants for killing harmful bacteria.
  • You can also use sprays to sprinkle soap water into the toy. They are not expensive; hence it is always a better option and easiest method to disinfect.
  • In the case of a vibrator, prevent submerging it completely into the water. It will prevent the vibrator from getting ruined. . Cleaning of the toys is only completed once you wash it using a dry towel.
  • A dry towel should be used to absorb the drops of water that are present as they can contribute to the growth of bacteria on the vibrator.

Safety tips while using the Vibrator

As much exciting as using a vibrator is, proper safety measures must be taken. . If you are using a vibrator, prevent it from becoming an addiction. You have to handle it  softly such that the nerve endings are not injured.  The clitoris has very subtle nerve endings.

The highly sensitive nerve endings should not be damaged eventually. Smooth handling of the vibrator over the privy area is recommended such that you can have lasting enjoyment. Overusing the vibrator might  lead to a loss of senses near the privy areas.

It needs to be understood that it is an artificial way of having an orgasm. Thus, over-reliance on the same can lead to losing the senses all-together! Clean the vibrator before using it. It might be carrying  a number of germs, thus keeping it clean becomes a necessity.

Though there are no significant side-effects, yet it is recommended that don’t overdo it. Issues regarding numbness, swelling and soreness have been reported frequently. Wonderful sex life can be enjoyed when the partner agrees with you  for your choice of toys.

Just like any other toy, a vibrator can also be used during coitus. It can enhance sexual pleasure and happiness, thus helping in deriving pleasure out of it.

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