Complete Guide on How to Get a Guy Horny (2020)

It's always important to find different ways to improve your sex life!

Human beings have the tendency to improve their living standard, lifestyle, and profession then why thinking about sex life is considered as taboo?

Sex is also a well documented physiological need in the Maslow’s five tier hierarchy of needs.

If your sex life is not satisfactory, then you won’t be able to concentrate in any field in your life.

Sometimes, both partners are not attracted in the same way and it creates a negative impact on our life.

If your boy or guy is not turned on properly and you want to get your guy horny in the bed, then this article is just for you!

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Every girl wants a life like a movie. But real life does not  work like Movies at all. In all porn movies, you will find a girl who may spend more than half an hour blowing a guy and guy would also reciprocate her. If you want to get your guy horny, then you have to follow some tips.

Going down during sex on each other is always exciting and pleasurable.  

If a guy is shy and can't approach on his own, then you have to use some common tips to check if he is interested in you and once you find a positive response from him, then it is certainly the time to act and make him go horny all over you.

This complete guide will prove to be helpful for you in making any guy horny. 

Important Things to Remember Before You Start on the journey

Sometimes a guy can become horny very easily and the other times it can be really hard. Now it's up to you how you will create an approach in front of him. There are some points you have to remember –

#1. Know Your Relationship Status Properly

First, you have to analyze your relationship status. Is the relationship old already or it has been just two weeks since you both started to go out?

 

If your guy is too mature or too shy, and you are in a new relationship which has just begun and is about 2 to 3 weeks old, then we advise you not to rush into anything.


Just give your relationship some more time and then go close to each other.

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Once your guy is physically attracted to you, then you can start teasing him by wearing a deep neck dress which will give him a chance to peek into your cleavage. You can kiss his lips or hold his hands and then start kissing him.


Your man will know that you are into him and this will make him want to do more things which ultimately will be pleasurable for both of you. As your guy becomes horny, you will notice the sex will be more pleasurable and satisfying as well.


#2. Change Your Attitude Towards Sex

People do have some pre conceived notions when it is about sex. As some people want to just enjoy it but it takes two hands to clap, right?


Checking these sorts of attitudes may eventually improve your sex life as it is crucial for you to be able to enjoy sex.


Don't feel shy whenever he wants to come close to you. If you feel you are not comfortable, then you can ask him to stop at any moment.


Try telling him what you want from the relationship and if he provides a positive response, then maybe he can be the perfect guy for you.

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Also, don’t expect him to indulge in kinky stuff. Do some dirty talking, shape up your body attitude, and dress sexier to make him go wild.


#3. Take Initiative 

Yes! Initiative taking women appear sexy to every man- no matter how dominant they are.


When he is watching TV, or going for a bath or shaving, try to get close to him during these moments.


These are the best ways to approach him. You will be shocked to see how fast he gets turned on by these gestures.


There are some girls or women who feel hesitant whether they should take initiative or not but the fact is, sometimes, to get extra, you have to initiate first.


I assure you that he would love this approach.  


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#4. You Have to Play a Bold Role

Don't be shy if you want to see your man become horny.


You have to be dominant and need to show him that you want to have sex at that moment.


Don't be afraid to take action and initiate the foreplay; it will surely attract your man a lot more towards you.


Use your imagination more and explore your hidden fantasies. Once you show him your sexual desires, I’m sure you will enjoy his reaction.


You will be delighted to see his expression and your desires will make him go wild over you such that you will not be able to control him.


Eventually, you will see that he will fall in love with you and will be ready to take any decision with you.


No matter how much you have quarrelled earlier, if you have that sexy aura within you, then you can make him forget about all the quarrels/fights and he will start loving you crazily again.


You need to start first and he will definitely finish the game for sure.


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#5. Never practice routine sex

Yes! It is true.


Many couples live together and make a routine of having sex every time they go to bed at night and just after few minutes into intercourse they will sleep. 


If you follow this routine daily, then your sex life will become a lot boring and your man will lose sexual interest very soon.


You should always try a new position and have some foreplay.


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Before sleep, spend some time together by watching a sexy porn movie or checking out different positions and talking dirty. This will keep both of you interested in sex and your man will be horny every time he meets you after a long hard day at the office.


If you keep on demanding a new position, new ways for sex or dress up with sexy clothes, he will always be attracted to you and be a beast in bed. If you don't have much idea about different sex positions, then you may search online and find the details from the internet.


You will find the information regarding many sex positions and remember there are some positions which are more pleasurable than the usual ones.

#6. Play with Him whenever you need

Don’t wait for any particular time. Just remember to talk dirty and act naughty in front of your partner.


Know his feelings, inner desires, and interest and react according to that!


Talk to him about your honeymoon, feelings of romance or inner desires, as such things are a great way of opening up someone.


This will make him closer to you and you will surely enjoy every moment of it.


Avoid boring sex and try new things by taking inspiration from the internet or a porno movie because there are a lot of things which you can learn from them. 


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Teasing him in the car or touching his pants when no one is around can spark more interest in both of you.


Talking is quite important and dirty talks are a way to initiate sex.  Dirty talking is often seen as that orgasm from oral sex that can be a lot more helpful in making both of you feel hot and titillating.


#7. Send text messages

If you want to make him horny, then sending dirty messages while he is at work is a sure thing to do.


Remind him of something that you both did last time, and text him a few romantic lines as well.


It all depends on you, what you want to shape his mind into.


If you send him some romantic texts, he will become all smiling and romantic.


If you send him something dirty that you want to do to him, then he will feel that heat. 


He might become crazy and leave the office early so as to get back home as soon as possible. 


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You can turn on the heat by either sending him a text or a picture of you wearing something sexy or maybe just the bra or panties. Such sexy messages are sure to make him crave you like crazy. 


#8. Go Outside and enjoy sex

Some couples only do sex while they are in bed. But the bed is not the only place where you can have sex, right?


You can enjoy some heat in the kitchen, bathroom, on the sofa, balcony or some other places!


Enjoy the weekend at someplace and dive into the sexual pleasure. 

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If you leave your bedroom and go to some other place for romance or sex, it creates a lot of excitement and helps both of you to explore more of each other’s bodies. If you start lovemaking in a bathroom or a hotel room, your man tends to become wilder, feeling a lot hotter.


#9. Orgasm is the Best Way

If you want to make your man go wild and horny during sex, then orgasm is the best way to do it.


Now, there are different ways to achieve orgasms; via handjob, blow job, conventional intercourse etc.


You have to notice what kind of sex your guy loves the most and play your cards in accordance with that!


You can start with the dirty talk, move onto the kisses, wear something sexy that highlights your curves and we are sure that he will forget everything and will jump right onto the bed with you.


Going for orgasm is a way of sexually satisfying your partner and this is why you need to do that often.


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#10. Listen to some romantic song

Songs are something that help to relax and express your inner feelings.


Suppose if your guy is not in the mood, then playing some romantic songs might lift the cold clouds. 


This can easily switch any kind of mood and he will be soon in sexual disposition to set fire in your loins!


Play a video song and start dancing in front of him (or maybe stripping). Kiss his lips, chest and hold him tightly.


This will help to turn him on and he will eventually feel awesome.


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#11. Wear some sexy Attire

Don't wear the same dress or loose clothes daily.


Clothing is a section that needs to be handled with care because it is a game where both your mind and body have to be satisfied.


So, to get more satisfaction, you have to wear some sexy dress.


Wear a black sleeveless nighty or lingerie and use a night lamp when you go to the bed.


Your man no matter how occupied he is, will not be able to resist and will take you down with his moves.


Everybody must have seen some dresses and imagined them on a girl as well as how you can tear them right off her.


Yes! Wearing a transparent dress or something that highlights your cleavage or ass will definitely work for a guy.


#12. Be hygienic

This is also a crucial component.


If you want your guy to go down and do something with his tongue, then you have to ensure that it is completely clean there.


Always remember the first impression is the last impression.


When he brings his tongue down there, if it does not smell well, then he will not go there  again.


It would be beneficial if your intimate areas are cleaned beforehand. Trim your bushes properly as it is good for hygiene purposes.


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For many guys, a clean pubic area tends to attract them. This allows him to play with your private parts and please you orally. However, some exceptions are always there. If your man loves hair in those parts, then it is fine or else you must trim them properly.


#13. Watch porn together

If you want to enjoy your sex life to the fullest and want your man to completely go wild over you, then watching porn together and telling him to do that particular move which you saw might turn him horny.


Always choose a movie where two people focus on passion more rather than hardcore sex.


Watching this type of porn movie together increases the bond between the couple.


Trying the same moves with each other and blowing his whistle might be a lot helpful if you want him to be horny.

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 Foreplays are equally important at the same time which makes both of you become sexually interested in each other. Being opened up to your partner can help you to fulfill your hidden fantasies.


For watching porn, visit some good websites and select a nice category. Choose superior quality and high rating porn at the start. As you move ahead, choosing different categories might add a lot of action between you two.


#14. Make a short trip and Drink with Him

Go for a romantic date or short trip, spend some romantic moments with him and drink!


Don’t forget to enjoy these moments with him which will help you stay away from all the stress in your life.


Once you spend some romantic moments with your partner, you will definitely feel awesome.


While you are out, try something adventurous and kinky stuff like having sex on a private beach or in a hotel room.


Such type of sex ought to improve your sex life and you will finally be able to feel content with your sex life.


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#15. Fight and love back

If you had a fight with your guy and you both are mad at each other.


However, at the end of the day, he will always be your guy; so don’t try to refrain yourself from loving him. 


You can tease him by showing your naked body while you are on the bed.


This will surely make all his anger go away and he can become wild.


Do you know that a fight can result in one of the most passionate sex that you’ve ever had?


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At the start, show him that you are angry and resist him. But I’m sure that he will be tired from a long fight and would definitely want to try to get a piece of you again. In this way, you can get your guy horny and both of you can enjoy an incredible intercourse.


To make sure sensual feelings don't go away ever between you two, you need to stop doing some things routinely.


Things You Can Do Make Him Horny

Domination always proves to be the best

Don't give him a chance to touch you very easily. Play hard while he tries to go near you. Touch his body but when he is coming to touch you, don't allow him to touch you straight away, this will make him hornier inside and he would want to get you at any cost.

Men are crazy beings such that if they are getting some things very easily, they will never respect it. So, don't start physical relations on the first date. Take some time, understand him, and dominate him. This will possibly make him go wild whenever you both indulge in the sexual relationship.

The more you dominate, the more horniness you will receive.  

Flaunting is an incredible way to start things

A girl surely knows how to flaunt in front of a man. You may have kissed him, dominated him, and even restricted him as well.

But now, it's time to flaunt him. Wearing a short skirt or blouse that tends to show up your skin, cleavage, and other sexy parts will help to build the heat between you two. If you have something which you can show proudly like your ass, boobs, belly, then show him properly. 

The more he will look the more he will get seduced and would crave you from the inside. It will make him go crazy over you and he won’t be able to control himself. This is one of the smooth ways to get him horny.

How to Make Your Man Horny

Satisfaction is really important

Every girl and boy needs physical satisfaction. This positively adds up to the way of living happily by attaining mental and physical satisfaction. If either you or your partner is not happy or your guy never feels horny for you, then you have to notice some points.

You have to check his mood; you have to understand what he needs, his desires, inner feelings, etc. Do check out these points if you want to keep things fine between the two. First, you have to analyze whether he has a mood or not!

Then check your private body parts whether they are clean or not! Third, you have to create some acts to win his mood! Once his mood becomes fine, you will continue enjoying your life to the fullest.

Every girl wants his partner to become wild at the time of making love. If you want to add pleasure and excitement to your sex life, then you can choose different ways to do so. Don't go with the same old sex position every day because it can become boring and monotonous.

This is why many experts recommend you play out in different positions, check various porn sites and use different sex toys. This will surely help to bring the sex game back into the action.

Physical satisfaction will make your life better

Physical satisfaction is indeed quite important because it makes you become happy and calm. If you are physically not satisfied, you might have sleepless nights and even get irritated over small matters.

Sometimes, this may shape up in the form of disappointment, frustration and a lot of other things.

Physical satisfaction is crucial for you to be calm from inside which will allow you to concentrate more on work. If you or your partner does not feel satisfied, then you both should talk to each other. Talk and sort your problems out, which will work the best for both of you.

Some important Do’s and Don’ts to Keep in Mind

  • You need to express to your partner that you are satisfied. When he plays with your private parts, encourage him on how to do it to get more and more pleasure out of it. It will satisfy both of you.
  • When your partner doesn't like to do anything, it’s time to act sensitively. Play with him swiftly and let him realize that you are enjoying his company. This helps to improve your sex life. If you don't like any of his moves, do speak to him about it. So that next time he remembers to try some new things which you had never thought about.
  • Bathroom sex is another best way to make your man horny. Lose out all your clothes in front of him and start having a bath, show out your teasing moves and trust me, he will just lose his control and will come down to you and go all Johnny Sins on you.
  • Start restricting him. A guy will go beyond his limits and certainly want to explore some areas which seem to be restricted. So, you should always try restricting while he is going down. The more you play hard to get, the more he would love to rock your world. This is certainly an incredible way to get the most out of him.
  • Don’t forget to tell him how much you love his moves. The more you will tell him about these things or show your gestures like touching his body or kissing him, the more he will get encouraged and start doing something extra, thereby, leaving you speechless every single time. This will certainly improve your sex life. He will understand what exactly you just love during sex and he will follow those moves every time to make sure you become satisfied.
  • Always express your love and communicate. The more you communicate during sex and express your feelings the more your partner will love it. In this way, both of you can realize which moves turn your partner on and which ones don’t. This will help both of you to get the most out of each other. You can also search online to find different kinky ideas. Then, you can use those ideas to make yourself happy. Find the best tips across the internet and have a pleasurable life ahead. Do spend some romantic time and go on trips whenever both of you get time.
  • If you know how to flirt well with your sensual touch, then this is the perfect time to show off. Men love women who want to touch their bodies. You don’t need a reason to touch his body.  Close intimation always helps to make him wild. Remember to talk while you are having sex by putting your hands over his chest and conveying your message.
  • Start kissing your boyfriend, make him smile and tease him. Kiss his neck or ear instead of lips and he will soon become crazy. Most men like foreplay so it is important to know what your partner likes. Remember don’t expect everything from him, initiate yourself and you will soon unleash the wild beast in him.

Final Words

So if you want to see your boyfriend or guy become horny, then you must start following the above stated points. We hope this article has added some value to your sex life. If you want to read some exciting articles, then you must keep checking our profile.

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