If you rule out the possibility of anal sex in your life, then you might be underestimating the power of your rectum to provide you with the highest realms of pleasure.
Well, you are no longer living in a world where sex is considered a subject of taboo.
We talked to a lot of women about their anal sex experience and learned how they decided to embark this journey.
They welcomed the experience because it helped enhance their sexual repertoire.
Many people surround anal sex with several myths, while there are tons of other people across the world who pleasure themselves with the same. For those who haven't tried anal sex, there could be some daunting thoughts going on in your mind.
But we suggest you come outside of your clean vanilla sex shelter and be a part of something new. We understand all your concerns related to what to do and how to do in the beginning, middle or the end.
This is why we are going to hand over you a complete guide to first time anal sex to make it easier for you.
The sensation of Anal Sex - Sensual than Regular Vaginal Sex or not?
Well, anal sex is something that ranges from taking in some pressure to dwindling around, ultimately resulting in an overwhelming climax. You might feel like you need to poop but trust me, you won't do it. Such feelings come up when the penis is inside you.
At the time of insertion, you might feel a little bit burning and stinging. No one will tell you the actual feeling, and we are obviously not here to scare you off, but this is the truth.
So, you must be wondering why do people do it then? Well, the answer to this question lies inon the fact that once you get used to these rough starts, it can be a lot of satisfying, stimulating and addicting.
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Do focus on the word "addicting" because it is unlike any other experience; infact, it is more intense than your vaginal orgasm. One obvious thing about anal sex is that it might take more than one attempt to finally start feeling pleasurable.
Hence, always remain patient if you're starting fresh with anal sex.
We won't lie about the process, but you will be surprised when you actually discover that it could give such a fantastic feeling once you push through its details. You may need to prep yourself up, and you will be good to go then.
Let us take a look at the detailed guidelines which will help you in preparing for anal sex.
Preparation for Anal Sex
Well, we totally appreciate if you have reached at this point because we know that you have some curiosity and interest in going for anal pleasure. This is a great thing because curiosity often lets you dive into the most incredible experiences. Let's get started.
1. Be careful on your eating habits.Mexican and spicy food must be avoided at all costs prior to the anal sex. If you do otherwise, it could seriously be an embarrassment because you will inevitably end up making a mess and we are talking about a shitty mess. Y Also, avoid eating some heavy food before any type of sex, What about drinks? There has been a lot of debate about the drinks as some people say that it might help you calm your nerves while others say you have to be completely sober. Our recommendation depends on the circumstance. If you are a "giver", then you need to stay sober all the time because you will then be able to control your movements better. However, if you are A small sip will relax your body as well as the mind, but a lot of quantity of drink |
2. Clean up is essential before the action.There is no point in going extreme and then be called douche for not This is a good habit and certainly an essential step in preparing for the anal sex. Cleaning your portion is similarly like taking a shower, but you need to put more emphasis on your buttholes while you cleanse yourself up. No one will tell you about some things like the lower portion in your rectum always has some of the fecal Cleaning Out for Anal Sex |
3. Condoms are necessary.Even if you follow the principle of soulmate with your special one, we recommend you wear condoms. This helps you practice the methodology of safe sex which initiates the concept of preventing infection from bacterias or viruses. One essential thing This is required because the rectum doesn't have the ability to self- |
3. Condoms are necessary.Even if you follow the principle of soulmate with your special one, we recommend you wear condoms. This helps you practice the methodology of safe sex which initiates the concept of preventing infection from bacterias or viruses. One essential thing This is required because the rectum doesn't have the ability to self- |
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How can you select your first butt plug?
There are some do's and don'ts to do a particular task. If you are getting on to buy a butt plug for yourself the very first time, you should consider the things given below:
Do's
Don'ts
Don’t overestimate your butthole's capability and buy some large butt plug with a gigantic diameter / insertable length.
You should never force your body by doing something which might get messed up later on.
Choosing a butt plug must be a crucial concern;
if you don't want to visit the ER. So, choose wisely otherwise try talking up to your partner about it, which is an essential ingredient of the anal sex. Want to know about it? Well, scroll below.
Essential Ingredients of anal sex
Ingredients are the small components which can impact the whole process as well as the end result if not taken seriously.
Similarly, for a healthy sexual life, you need to consider essential ingredients that make it spicy and content. We are listing the top three essential elements leading to amazing anal sex.
CommunicationEven though you have done all the preparations before the anal sex, it becomes necessary to communicate with your partner about what you want or what he wants. You both need to take full responsibility for the apprehensions, worries, expectations and even the complications. This can help to make it an enjoyable experience for both of you. If you are the receiver If you haven't been communicating about your thoughts and feelings, then you might end up You might even struggle to get things sorted out. Get the necessary talk beforehand so that you both |
LubricationWe cannot stress enough on the importance of lubrication Unlike the vagina, your rectum can't lubricate itself, and this is where a lube plays its crucial role. Finding the right lubrication can be a tricky subject but some recommendations from the expert can prove a lot more helpful. It’ll help ease the process and make it pleasurable for you. Keep two to three kinds of lubes handy and use the one which suits your needs the best. |
RelaxationOnce you have There can be no other way to relax and enter a Zen state of mind than having a gift from your partner. This is something incredible and the best possible way for a pleasurable sexual experience. If everything goes well, it is the time to act, but you need to start slow and don't rush into In the later section, we will be guiding you to each and every step of the process. |
First Time Anal Sex - Let's Start the process
You might not remember your first walk as that was during the time of your childhood, but you will never forget having your first anal sex.
We know that you want everything to go normal otherwise it would be a bit disappointing, wouldn't it?. Now, there
must be few dangerous thoughts going on in your head, and we suggest you take a deep breath. Don't worry as we will be here talking about the whole process bit by bit. Let's go.
Start with one thing at a time
As we already discussed before, an essential element of anal sex is preparing for it.
You can get yourself into some action with your fingers and sex toys which will help you ease through the anal sex. You might be considering using butt plugs (which we discussed in the earlier sections). We recommend you to let it stay during vaginal sex as well to experience more pleasure.
Breathing and Relaxing
An important thing for a successful penetration is relaxing your sphincter muscle as this sensitive muscle
is involved in opening and closing up your buttholee. This is why we keep on emphasizing relaxing because if you feel anxious, then it might get tighten up quickly.
There is a possibility that it might take a long time to relax the muscle, but once it does, you may be able to stretch it as wide as you can without any trouble. You can think of happy moments or some fabulous vacations which will give a boost in relaxing your sphincter.
The beginning part
If you talk to some people who have already done anal sex before, they will tell you that the beginning point is the phase where you will experience some pain. This is true as the penis' tip has a wide girth which is something you need to get over with before you start experiencing some pleasure.
This is the point where communication and lubrication come into play. It's quite a weird combination but is undoubtedly a key to successful anal penetration. If you have the right lube and the right partner by your side, then there cannot be anything outstanding than this.
Anal Sex Prep - To Prevent Embarrassing Accidents
No rush movements
You might have to control yourself before you feel the urge to rush in.
Sure, it is the heat of the moment which makes you go wild on each other, but this is something which can work for the vagina but can be dangerous for the anus. You cannot do any harm if you go slow and steady.Keep your movements constant and gradually increase your pace by aligning with your partner.
A pleasuring stimulation
There is a question that people often wonder about - Do women orgasm in anal sex? Well, some answer yes to this question while others think "how come?" The best answer is orgasm can happen in anal sex if you do not try
to take shortcuts and allow things to unfold.
The best way to get your partner an orgasm is by stimulating her other body parts, especially the vagina or clit.
If you think this is a lot of multitasking, considering the option of fingers and at the same time controlling your pace in the anal penetration, then we advise you to use a vibrator, which functions explicitly through a remote.
The 5 Best Anal Sex Positions
Being completely honest, the positions for anal and vaginal sex are often the. The ideology of sex positions is to give people the best pleasure, and we will be listing out the top 5 positions to try anal sex in.
MissionaryIf you emphasize over reading the terrain Reading the terrain here means to carefully observe the partner's reactions and adjust your actions accordingly. To try this, elevate the receiver's hips by means of a small pillow which will help you get a better angle. If you consider raising the legs or sometimes placing it on your shoulder, it would be of immense help in smooth movements. The best thing about missionary position is that both you and your partner can see each other and gauge each other's movements, responses as well as the feelings. Considering the sensitivity of anal sex, this position makes more sense to have a relatively better |
CowgirlAh! This dominating female position is loved by many females because it lets You need to place your legs on both sides of your partner on the mattress and then place your hands on his chest to maintain balance. T You can decide your own pace and of course the depth as well. This is the best way to stimulate your partner. |
Doggy StyleDoggy Style is a famous and basic position to perform anal sex. It is the first and sometimes the starting position among many couples out there. This position gives control to the partner who penetrates. It becomes You can always start To create more stimulation, the male partner can press his partner's boobs or reach out to her vaginal area. |
Reverse CowgirlThe cowgirl position Reverse cowgirl position is the same as the cowgirl position with just a minor difference that the receiver here flips 180 degrees and her back faces the giver. As we say that men are visual lovers, and when men see their partners from back getting on top of them, they might go wild. The best part of such a position You have the option of switching up your pace as well. |
SpooningIf you are feeling a bit lazy and want to introduce some cuddling To be in this position, your partner gets inside you from behind, and you need to place your leg against his to create more room. While you are diving into the position, you can use a vibrator for some vaginal fun. However, if things get complicated, then adjust your position as per your partner and get ahead with a plank position where you lay flat on the bed and have your partner on top of yourself. |
After the Action
Now that you are done with your anal sex, what will you do next? Well, if you had a great anal sex, wipe off the bodily fluids and get ahead by throwing out the condom, and then you can go right back to bed and
cuddle with your partner.
Cuddling is a great activity after sex which strengthens your relationship with each other.
You should give yourself a gentle wash with some lukewarm water which would surely be loved by your butthole because warm water tends to bring a lot of relaxation. Always ensure to use gentle products and avoid using harsh ingredients at your sensitive place.
If you are the giver and wearing a condom (as you should be wearing it during sex), then you should give your penis a nice wash.
Some Additional Safety Tips and Important Points to Remember
Let us take a closer look at some of the safety tips and important points to remember while you have a tremendous anal sex experience.
How to Have Anal Sex Safely
With a lot being already said, we wish you a lifetime of happiness and a perfect humping!
If you need any suggestions regarding sex toys or lubricants, then go ahead and send your queries to us. We will surely be assisting you. We hope you have a good time and we will see you next time.